My husband's 25 yr. old son's filthy room and car.

The 25 yr old son has tried to cause my husband and I to fight out of jealousy, meanness and just plain hatefulness.  He used to break things of mine on purpose and say it was an accident UNTIL I caught him breaking my things.   The last time he threatened to break anything of mine was about 5 months ago I think... I got him on an audio, and I think, video also, threating to "break everything of yours in this house"... UNTIL he realized I was recording him!!   Please see below several photos of his filthy car and room over the past  6 weeks.   THIS is how my husband has allowed him to live with US for the past FOUR years.