July 11th, 2025 4:15 am
My husband just came in from work about 4am. My great nephew went into an army camp back in early April. My husband promised to be his "mentor"..... He's DONE nothing to support the boy (17 yrs old)... except went to spend 4 hours with him on "mentor" day last month. HE PROMISED the young man the last time he spent the weekend with US right before he left for camp in April that he WOULD BE HIS MENTOR AND SUPPORT HIM. He has not even written any letters at all. I could not go with my husband on mentor day... it was NOT a family day. MY HUSBAND KNEW before the boy left for camp that family day is JULY 12th this Saturday. HE PROMISED he would go to family day, promised the boy before HE LEFT for camp.
NOW, last night about 10pm my f*cking husband called me from work and said, "I don't think I can go with yall to see him Saturday." HIS FUCKING 24 year old asshole daughter made a dentist appointment for Saturday at 11m. I asked my husband why her brother can't take her. HE >>>>MY husband KNEW the family day date BACK IN April and had the fucking nerve to tell me last night he'd been trying to get his 24 yr old daughter a dentist appointment for a month>>????
I am so MAD and HURT I could spit fire at HIM... I'M MORE THAN READY TO LEAVE HERE (CITY HOUSE) AND NEVER COME BACK. IF I HAD THE MONEY TONIGHT I'D CALLED MOVERS NOW AND BEGIN MOVING TO HELL THAT HE'S HERE. THAT'S HOW MAD I AM.
MY HUSBAND'S F*CKING 27 YEAR OLD SON IS LAYING UP IN THIS HOUSE WITH US AND HAS ALL OF OUR RELATIONSHIP AND he works night at a convienence store because he's too lazy to work with a contracted company where my husband is WHERE he could have a CARREER... OH but wait he can't go back there because he sexually harassed a women co-worker and also because he was smoking vapers on the job... My husband's son was scared sh*tless his dad was going to find out he sexually harassed that woman he worked with. He didn't want his dad asking anyone anything back when he was forced to "quit"... I KNOW they made him leave because I heard his son talking to one of his friends on the phone back then saying his dad didn't KNOW.
I took off my wedding rings tonight. My wedding band has had diamond broke in it for a year and a half but I ALWAYS were my engagement ring and a supplement ring with three stones as my wedding ring... been wearing it since my diamond broke in my wedding eternity band, and until I get it repaired. I took my rings off. He quit wearing his nearly 2 years ago.... I'm not wearing mine any longer... that was it as of last night.
CAN YOU SEE AND UNDERSTAND WHY THE TWO WOMEN HE LOVED AND WAS WITH BEFORE ME CHEATED ON HIM WITH OTHER MEN??? THE FIRST WOMAN HE HAD A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH BEFORE HIS DECEASED WIFE CHEATED ON HIM WITH DIFFERENT GUYS. HIS DECEASED WIFE CHEATED ON HIM WITH DIFFERET MEN. MY HUSBAND DOESN'T KNOW WHO, HOW MANY, ETC... THAT HIS DECEASED WIFE WAS WITH. I'm THE ONLY WOMAN out of THREE that has NOT cheated on him. I totally and completely understand why they cheated on him. He drove them to it. Women want to feel loved, valued, and special, not hurt, and hurt and more hurt. I TOLD him I wanted a husband that would NEVER not hold me... that would hold my hand, and kiss me hello and good bye. I wanted a husband that WAS A GENTLEMAN... that would open and close a car door for me, that would never leave me in a parking lot walking ahead of me. I wanted one that would not argue in hate and meanness or say mean hateful things... WAS THOSE THINGS SO HARD TO GIVE ME????? IT WAS ALL SIMPLE AND RESPECTFUL REQUEST. HE'S LET ME DOWN WITH EVERY REQUEST IN WHAT I TOLD HIM I WANTED AND NEEDED IN A MAN. HE'S POPPED OFF HIS SMART ASS MOUTH BEFORE TALKING ABOUT HIS FIRST WIFE (DECEASED) AND ME... saying, "I gave yall both a wallet full of credit cards and I work overtime all the time to give yall things... She wasn't happy and you are not happy." WHAT the F~~~~ does he think.... that he can trade credit cards for love and affections and kindness? SEE WHY she cheated???? She wanted a man to make her feel loved and she was starved for affection. IF I WAS LESS of a strong faith in GOD I would have turned to another man, but I do not want another man. I just want MY OWN HOME AWAY FROM MY HUSBAND WHERE HE CAN NOT FIND ME OR EVER HURT OR ABUSE ME AND MY ANIMALS AGAIN IN ANY WAY.