5:57 pm June 23rd, 2025 Monday evening
My husband is laying in a clean BED that I spent 30 minutes making up night before last in his dirty sweat pants he wore to work yesterday and that he wore outside today for 4 hrs. sweating in!!!!!!!!! (It's 96 degrees here today with about 85 percent humidity!!)
His 24 year old "daughter"... the one that had her removed in July 2024 after "deciding" suddenly she was /is "transgender"... needed a bed. (This is the same daughter that just moved out of our house after staying with us a month, and the same daughter that physically attacked me twice while she lived with us... AND the same PERSON that moved in with us a month because she physically fought with her roommate in May (2025) and ALMOST got arrested for physically attacking that roommate.)
Anyway... sigh... "she" needed a bedframe after moving from the BIG city to the smaller "big" town forty miles the opposite direction from US... than the Big city was... it's 40 miles the other way. She moved out of the apartment (my husband rented a small uhaul truck last month...) BUT she, nor he, took the bed frame but left it in the apartment!! Thus, for the last 10 days or so since she left her (our city house) she's been sleeping on her mattress on the floor .... (POOR THING>>>> and I say this sarcastically).
I was kind enough to get on fb market place for my husband and FIND her a nice bed frame. He went and got it for her today, at a great price of only $20!! He left here at 11:40 am to meet the lady with the bed frame in a business to pick it up from her. I stayed home! Before he left he was SHITTY.... He'd been awake since 10am dozing on and off and with his face STUCK into his laptop as usual. WELL... when he got ready to go, guess what ? HIS phone was dead. I did not charge it for him as I usual do... nor did I charge his laptop for him. (I have to do everything for him like he's a 11 month old toddler... it GETS OLD after 6 years!) Actually I was very tired and was up all night not getting to bed until after he came in at 4am... (Plus I made him a fresh ham, egg and cheese sandwich and had it ready for him when he came in.) I did not NOT charge his phone for him on purpose... I was simply tired and didn't actually think of it. (According to him, I'm supposed to remember EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME, OR if he forgets to do something, or just doesn't do something... IT"S MY FAULT??? YEA... RIGHT.)
When he finally decided to leave to go meet the woman at 11:40 am to pick up the folding iron bed frame, his phone was dead. He said, "I need a car charger, NOW." (He was hurrying as usual because he was running late as usual!!) He repeated himself. I told him, "The only car charging cable I have is in my car... mine..." HE WAS SO FREAKING SHITTY AND UGLY... AND SAID, "Get it for me NOW..." I didn't say anything... but thought to myself, "Shit with this..." I gave him an older one out of my car and another one that still worked part of the time... and I kept my new one. I HAVE BOUGHT HIM ABOUT 20 CHARGNG CABLES AND CHARGERS IN THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF... (None of the three of them him, the daughter or the son) take care of ANYTHING.... they TEAR things up.) That's the reason I have a new one in my car.... I gave him MY NEW one about TWO weeks ago!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm going to buy him about 10 cheap ones at Dollar Tree.... I'm going to make a purposeful visit there JUST for 10 charging cables and 10 cigarette lighter plug ins!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'll do that Wednesday evening when he goes back to work !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Then I'm going to WALMART and buy myself another GOOD cigarette lighter plug in charger and two GOOD charging cables because the one I have now, even though new, was a cheap one.
He got back about 4pm this evening. He left at 11:40 am. I thought he was going to take the bed frame to his daughter... that's why I thought he'd been gone so long. Come to find out he'd spent four hours chasing down free craigslist items, that were already gone...and went to Big Lot... so he wasted 3 hours for nothing as the items he wanted on curb alerts were gone!! Hence the reason he was pissy-fied when he came back.
I found a three step wood carved steps on fb for only $20 but it was 35 miles away in the town 2 miles from where my sister lives... I'd asked her to go get it but she said no it was raining and she was not going back out... This set of little steps was very nice and I knew they were expensive.... I've been looking for a set for about a year and a half. I decided I'd go get them before the woman sold them. She promised to hold them before I got there. I was so disappointed my sister would not run and get them for me they were SO close to her... but I didn't get upset, as I know she's tired from traveling out of state and back to see the guy she's dating.
RIGHT when I was walking out the door my husband came flying (rushing inside). I thought he'd be gone long enough for me to get there and back... just a little over and hour. Well, he started his bullshit right when he walked in the front door. I decided the path of least resistance and headache for me was a simple fib. (One of my older sister's has been sick so I just told him I had to run and take her some medicine. I don't like fibbing but I could not emotionally handle his SHIT at that moment.) He smarted off like an asshole. "You can't go you didn't discuss it with me." I told him, "You left here at 11:40 am and it's 4 pm now... You didn't discuss being gone 4 1/2 hours with me or going to take the bed to your daughter...." (At that time I didn't know he had not went and taken her the bed frame).
So I went and got my little three step, step ladder... and was only gone an hour and 10 minutes!! THEN, on the way back my sister called me and told me she'd go get it for me... ?????? TWO miles away from her only... but I'd driven 75 miles round trip because the lady would not hold it for another day... and would not accept a venmo payment (which was my plan...) !! I just thanked my sister and didn't even say I made the trip to get it... I didn't lie either as they lady did say she'd "hold it for me".... I just had to go today.... I just didn't feel physically up to getting into it all or making it into a drama... sigh. It wasn't her place to have to go get it for me anyway...
THEN right before I begin writing this entry into my blog.... MY HUSBAND JUST HAD TO TRY TO START SOME BULLSHIT WITH ME... HE'S LAYING IN BED WITH HIS FACE STUCK TO HIS LAPTOP TALKING ON TWITTER (X).... OH YES... he's rejoined Twitter, or X, or whatever you call it. His shitty attitude and what he said made me decide to go ahead and document this here. I'd been at my desk for about 30 minutes leaving him alone... (my desk in our bedroom corner...). He suddenly attempting to start his BS... saying, "Did you ever find the missing fob?" I ignored him .... he repeated his STUPID question... "I just said I don't have any idea what you are talking about..." OHHH>>>> I just now remembered!! His freaking slob son LOST his car fob about 3 weeks ago... As God is my witness, I HAVE NO clue where, when or how. If the truth be KNOWN it's lost in the filthy room, garbage filled bedroom, he lives in here with US... or in his garbage filled car... or either he just threw it away with garbage. (I do know if I ever do find it I WILL NEVER tell them.)
THAT'S another reason my husband was shitty... he doesn't have the fob to move his son's car any longer!!!! OK.... I comprehend his shitty hateful attitude now.... He couldn't move his son's car.... LOL LOL.... Excuse me, but this amuses me now, that I realize what he WAS talking about. I hate forgotten about that!! They have to try to deflect to "someone" when they lose things >>> which they do ALL the time!!!!!!!!!! THEN after that didn't work to up set me... he tried again... "Where's my daughters ring?" I ignored him... he asked again in a shitty voice, "Where's my daughter's ring?" I asked, "What ring are you talking about? Describe what ring you are talking about..." He didn't have a clue what ring he was talking about because it was just something made up that he was trying to start shit about. He just mumbled. "You know... you were the last one with it..." Another lie, and farther proof of his just wanting to stay bullshit. IF you are looking for a ring, then you would be ABLE TO DESCRIBE IT!! I told him firmly, "The last ring I touched around your daughter was TWO rings I GAVE HER about 4 years ago!!" He SHUT UP and has not said anything more. THANK GOD.
I'm TIRED. I'm going to find me something to eat and then sit somewhere and attempt to cat nap.
GOD, let my husband be calm, kind, sweet, and loyal and devoted to me... Amen. God, with or without me in his life, let him give his heart to YOU. SAVE him from himself... I have loved him and given him my best GOD. I love YOU. Amen.
(That's a pic of him lying in the CLEAN JUST MADE UP BED in his dirty pants he worked in yesterday and sweated in for 5 hours today... It's just NOT RIGHT!!)
